“Meekness Isn’t Weakness”
Posted on 15. Jun, 2010 by Douglas Richardson in Social Media, Tribe Syndication
In today’s society “meekness” is considered to be someone or something that is defined by Webster to be “deficient in spirit and courage: submissive” Now there are some qualities that we should all strive for? I don’t know about you but that is not the qualities that I would hope that people would see in me as a person. “There goes Doug; he is one of the meekest people I have ever known”. Doesn’t sound like something you would be very happy to hear now is it? Well let’s take a closer look at the virtue and see what we can fine out.
Meekness according to the biblical standpoint is a person willing to put themselves in second place and submit them self to achieve what is good for others. Meekness is the opposite of self-will, self-interest, and self-assertiveness.
This is a sign, not of weakness of character (as some think), but of strength. It requires great self-control to submit to others. Aren’t these the qualities that we need, to be leaders? I am not talking about compromising our principles, not at all! What I am saying is that we should truly listen to what people are saying and not be so concerned about our own position, and send more time helping people to achieve their goals. Through that we will emerge as caring leaders. When people feel that you genuinely care they will be loyal to you for a lifetime.
I think that in this social media world that we are all becoming more involved with we need to show the masses that we not only have value to give them, but also that we truly value them as persons, not just as another click on a affiliate link!
I would suggest that we spend some time thinking about our motives, are we showing that we are self willed; self-interested and self-assertive? This is what our human nature tells us to do. This is what society tells us to do, lookout for number one, stay strong and bend them to our will! Now I know that you are saying I am not like that? But truly look at your day to day actions, are you or aren’t you?
This may seem a little harsh, but let me just say this, as humans we tend to judge others and forget about our own actions. It is much easier to see the faults in others than in ourselves. Just remember showing signs of meekness, is actually showing that you have self confidence; self esteem and self control. As a leader these are the kind of qualities that I strive to posses. Will I miss the mark, sure but it is still something that I am striving for. So with that said, I hope that you come away from this post with something to think about, in the English language words can have several meaning, and for this I hope that you can now say “Meekness isn’t Weakness”.
I would personally like to thank you for reading my post and if you find it worth syndicating, I would be honored that you did so.
Sincerely:
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Val Wilcox
15. Jun, 2010
Doug,
Wonderful explanation about opening up and really listening with your heart, not your mind. Preconceived ideas stop the learning process. It’s amazing what you can learn from others when you see them as they are, another human being.
Great thoughts for today,
Val
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:29 am
Thanks Val, this is such an important thing in our lives to realize! DR
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Beth Allen
15. Jun, 2010
Hi Doug,
This post opened my eyes to a new way of viewing meekness. I definitely never thought of it that way, but your points are valid, and I fully agree that listening and genuine caring are the best ways to connect and build solid relationships.
Thanks for sharing!
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:30 am
Hi Beth glad you received something of value form this. DR
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Jose H. Caraballo
15. Jun, 2010
I love this post and this subject. It is very difficult to continue to see someone’s face light up as if to say “I’ve won” when you step aside and or let something happen “for the greater purpose”
It is sad to see that in these times something as simple as holding a door for someone can be viewed as a sign of weakness.
I tend to run into this all the time and have never liked it but it does not change my resolve to continue being a courteous and blessed individual.
You are right that meekness shows strength of character. I just wonder why so few people see it this way.
Thanks for the great post!
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:34 am
Hey My Friend, thanks for the kind words. It is amazing how are society as managed to change our priories form helping and caring to What’s in it for me attitude!
Blessings my Friend, DR
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Lisa Molina
15. Jun, 2010
Douglas,
These are wise words! I definitely have learned – To be a great leader – one must also know well how to follow. Being meek and humble is the quality I truly look to emulate from some of the greatest leaders in our history. I love the evaluation you have put forward for people to do. We want to believe we are being so grand, and you called it right out – when you said – “look at your day to day actions!” Gave me something great to think about. Thanks Douglas!
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:38 am
Hi Lisa, thanks for coming by! I glad you received some value for this post. DR
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Becca
15. Jun, 2010
Doug,
Great point here and I have shifted my thoughts on meekness as a result! It’s all about helping others, when we do, we help ourselves.
Take care,
Becca
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:18 am
Hi Becca, you are correct!
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Scott Scales
17. Jun, 2010
Hey Doug,
This post was wonderful. You are spot on when you talk about putting others first as being a quality of a true leader. It is difficult to step back and see that sometimes I get too involved in my own mission to truly value those around me. Thank you for helping me see the value in grounding my desires around the betterment of the people around me.
Scott
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:24 am
Thanks Scott, sometimes we forget what the real mission is? DR
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Michael Feil
17. Jun, 2010
The meek will inherit the earth. I think that’s all I have to say!
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:24 am
AMEN Brother!
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Tina Herz
17. Jun, 2010
I think I have to agree with Michael… and we teach our children here at home that thinking of the needs of others comes before theirs. I love your paragraph on motives, good thought.. what are they and where do they come from..?? Great post today Douglas! I am subscribing!
Bless you Sir, Tina
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:22 am
Thank you Tina, great incite! DR
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Nancy Burke Barr, J.D.
17. Jun, 2010
Hey Doug!
Mike Feil took the words right out of my mouth! You are so right when you suggest that we need to examine our motives. Often we think we are trying to help when we are really being controlling. Being meek includes thinking of what the other person needs, not what YOU think they need.
Tricky stuff my friend!
Mentor Mama
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 18th, 2010 at 7:23 am
Thanks Mentor Mama, you have a great point yourself! DR
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Don Enck
20. Jun, 2010
Doug,
The English language is a tricky little thing. So many different definitions of the words we use. I have to agree with you thought that when a word is looked at in a different light the meaning is often transformational. It takes courage to stand in the face of adversity. It takes following to learn how to become effective at leadership.
Great post Doug, Thanks.
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 2:42 pm
Hey thanks Don, you are very correct! Always good to hear from you! DR
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David Merrill
20. Jun, 2010
I love it, Douglas.
We stress strength and power and steam-roller tactics so much in our culture, but you are right. If you can be meek, you are far from weak. You are just honest and authentic, and you will be a great asset for a great many people who want to connect with real leaders, not just automatons.
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 2:41 pm
Thanks David, I am glad you liked it! DR
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Mary Lou Kayser
21. Jun, 2010
Hi Doug,
As a former English teacher, I am naturally fascinated with the evolution of words and their connotations. While “meekness” is perceived in today’s culture as a negative term, you show us here how it is, in fact, a word of strength and power. I like how you connected its origins to the world of Social Media where there seems to be two camps forming: those who truly care about forming relationships with others, and those who simply want more people to pitch their goods to. Great post!
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 2:39 pm
Thanks Mary Lou, you have great incite! I would agree there are two camps out there to work from. I prefer helping and listening! DR
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Chris Bernardo
24. Jun, 2010
Doug,
Thanks for writing this post , i find the information that you have shared of great value to the people that i connect with and going to pass this on to my tribe. I look forward to reading more from you.
Chris
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
June 25th, 2010 at 6:51 am
Hey Chris, thanks man! Let me know if I can help? DR
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Dena-Lynn
07. Aug, 2010
Doug,
Nothing harsh about your message – it needed to be said. Living a life in service to others is really how we create the most fulfilling relationships, which is a hallmark of a leader.
Thanks for a great post
Dena
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
August 7th, 2010 at 4:21 pm
Hi Dena-Lynn, I am glad you got something from this. I believe the word is misinterpreted as weakness by most! Thanks Again DR
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RosyGrotteren
29. Aug, 2010
Many thanks.
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Douglas Richardson Reply:
August 29th, 2010 at 7:11 am
Rosy, you are very welcome! Blessings
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